Kampong Girl I am

I've told everybody that I'm proud to be a ' kampong girl ' or you guys might refer as the country girl in English .. Proves :

1.         I've brought my best friends ( and my ex-best friend ) to my grans house since I'm 13 and schooling at a boarding school .. I'm still bringing them ( except for my exs ) ..

2.       I've never been embarrass by my village even though some people do and some people thought I should have ( I'm proud though )

3.       I've always brought my friend into the woods to feel somewhat a ' back to nature ' feeling .. Haha ~

Last two weeks my friends and I have gone to the mangrove plantation ( kinda  swampy area near the sea with lotsa mud ) with my granny to dig ( or hunt ) the shells called ' siput ' in Malay ..

play dirt yall !

 And yep .. We as much as I can say without any much of experience in that field of 'work ' got a worth to be proud of results ..

And .. Its like 70 % my granny's effort and 30 % all 4 of us effort ,, and  it included 5 % luck ( at least for inexperienced us .. Hahah! )

# haaa… how I love my village .. Of course … I'm ' the kampong girl ' ..

Taboo

Do people even know what the meaning of this ' taboo ' thing ? Wikipedia says taboo is a strong social prohibition (or ban) relating to any area of human activity or social custom that is sacred and/or forbidden based on moral judgment, religious beliefs and or scientific consensus. Dictionary.com says taboo is proscribed by society as improper or unacceptable .

Why did I even mumbles about this ? I DON'T WANT TO GET MARRIED !!

People might see this as me admitting my embarrassment about issues of marriage since I'm already 20 this year ( which people saw as a portal of women new world whatsoever ..  and the marriage age .. =.= ) ..

But the thing is that I felt that I have a greater responsibility towards my community ,, and that other people might be needing me more than a mere man can be needing me all by himself for the rest of my life ..!

Great responsibility !!

Some guys heard my ' ambition ' of being a solo and argued with  me .. Yeah,, but so what ?..

I'm happy with my life .

I've never dated anyone and I don't even wanted to .. Full stop .

# is dating an essential ? Then I'm not human ?Uff ~