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Monday, June 11, 2012

Sexual Harassment ?

Today I've encountered a new situation I've never experienced before. I don't even know how to put this into words but despite my anger, I'll try to tell it rationally and politely.. =.=!

I checked on my Facebook message inbox this morning just to find out a maniac pervert was saying something explicit and unacceptably sexual oriented.

He without any sense of shame for we don't really know each other just asking straightforwardly to do sex with me !

I was super furious at that time, and freezing in terror ..I even feel like choking on my own saliva and end up gasping for air..

This guy I thought, was super desperate or what ? Or is there any psychological term that I might don't know of regarding his act ?

Urgh ! I wasn't thinking anything else other than to screen-capture the chatbox and post it on my Facebook wall.. oh ,, and BLOCKING and REPORTING him for sexual harassment.

My male friends was showing their concern and disgust over this guy who's they stated as "the shame of homo sapiens" !

Guys,, please.. girls are not sex toy !! we do have dignity to respect even if you don't have some !

So,, what do you think ? Is he really the shame of homo sapiens ? or is there really some medical explanation on this ? ( other than crazy of course.. =.= )

Saturday, June 2, 2012

Betrayed ..

This is a true story of a girl that has been betrayed by her 5 years bestfriend. The reason is unknown to the betrayed unfortunate friend. But this is the story from third point of view. Here goes ..

Tia tried to make her friend understand that bringing a cellphone itself is forbidden at the hostel they're staying, let alone messaging with boyfriend.
     "Hana, eat your food ! you'll get us in big trouble,"whispered Tia.
     "i'm, see..I'll be okay, you're just overeacting you know.." said Hana chuckling.
Another friend in Tia's group, Luna tried her part,
     "Hana, its a manner to eat properly and put aside cellphones while eating at the table with everyone else. Besides, other people might look at you. What if you get caught, you'll get us all in trouble. For once, can't you just listen to people ? We are your friends.. "
      "I don't need friends. My boyfriend understand me more than you guys do and I'll only need him ! "

And thus starting that day, she don't even care anything else except her cellphone and her boyfriend. She totally ignored her friends. Tia can't forgive herself that all this started because of her. She talked Hana to buy a new cellphone because Hana didn't have one. Hana's mother always called Hana using Tia's cellphone and for the last 5 years, Hana also called her mother using Tia's cellphone.

Since they will be going to school trip, Tia thought that it's time for Hana to have her own cellphone for taking photos and for calling her mother ( her mother actually called every 30 minutes to check on her).

After two weeks, she started to change. She dates a guy she's never met once. The guy only mistaken her number for his friend's and they started dating. She even talks about intimate things a girl shouldn't talk to a guy. And this things concerned Tia.

5 month later, they're still not talking. It's about a two weeks before their big exam.. Teachers stop coming to classes and let students to study their own. Tia realizes that her friend who is sitting next to her hasn't been talking to her for weeks and keep avoiding her. Same goes with her friends that is sitting in front of her and some friends from other classes too.

She tried to talk to them but they just smile or answering half-heartedly and avoided her.

One day, a week before exam an incident happened that revealed Hana's trueself. A student from other class which is Hana and Tia's hostel mate come crying and searching for Hana. She came with a group of her classmates, attracting attention from other classes at the building.

Hana had started a very mean rumour saying that the girl has lost her virginity to her boyfriend and so on. So the girl keep her rationals that left to ask her who told her that.
      "since we're not that close, how did you know that ?" ask that girl sobbing.

Girls and boys gathered around them like bees. She started to point to one of her classmates. She said ..
      "isn't you talked about it ? i don't really remember who said that. I think its you .."

The scene last at that only because a teacher ask them to go back to their own classes. But the scene does a big impact to everyone. People started to ask Tia if she knows anything about the incident since Hana was her bestfriend (once).

The classmate that has been accused at the scene came to Tia's class and confessed that Hana told her that Tia borrowed RM 300 from Hana and didn't want to return it. After that Tia's other classmates also come and confessed to her what Hana had told them.

This made Tia became so sad because she loved Hana and sacrificed a lot of things to her. She has never did what Hana did to her and she never thought Hana would do something like that.

The conflict became more complicated and it involved the whole hostel and friends from other classes. Hana has even did childish things such as mocking Tia's friends and wrote silly things at walls and tables.

The day of the big exam arrived and 10 minutes before taking the first paper, students were hugging each other and asking for forgiveness from their friends.

Tia was about to step into the exam hall when someone called her. Hana came accompanied by a girl from her class to ask for Tia's forgiveness. Since everybody was looking at her, she has no choice but to forgive Hana. Hana make it look sincere by hugging Tia.

After the exam's over, Hana never spokes to Tia once and she still with her same habit. Tia has gotten used to it. They has been friends for 5 years and everytime they had conflict and they made up with each other, Hana will never changed.

This is their greatest conflict and Tia still hasn't forget it...

So what you think Tia should do if you're her ?